welcome back alright we’re talking about mindset so mindset ship number three with paid traffic and Bing ads on ownership so one goal that you should always be striving for I’m always striving for is to eliminate victim thinking and to remind yourself daily that you are at the cause of everything for good or ill you are responsible for your own success it’s pretty typical in marketing in business just in life that people want to blame some higher authority some some outside force for their lack of success and it scales all the way up you know it’s not it doesn’t have to do with income people who have high income look low income whatever it’s just a human behavior it’s just a it’s an addiction that we have by nature to want to blame anything but ourselves but successful people don’t do this it’s part of the behaviors of success that you’re going to have to take on more and more and you know we all have to learn how to step into these mindsets more and more to become more successful so if you’re doing you know paid traffic and something doesn’t work it’s not the offer it’s not the market it’s not the service and it’s not the course and it’s not the Guru the answer is it’s always all on you and my success is all on me when you embrace this always you can finally relax and stop wasting your time trying to find out who to blame the answer it’s always you and you have infinite resources especially today with the internet literally there are so many trainings out there free courses blogs people who are sharing their experiences from all walks of life trying to help you succeed in whatever it is you want to succeed in you have infinite resources you can learn anything no obstacle is insurmountable with the correct amount of time skill knowledge and effort if you’re trying to do an affiliate campaign and it’s not working for you it probably isn’t the market because other people are making money with that that offer if you’ve done your research and you choose something that’s you know very successful then you there’s something wrong with your process you know it’s not you as a person it’s your process you’re lacking knowledge you’re lacking some sort of insight you’re you’re lacking skill and all of those things can be improved by just learning and practicing so just remember to own your success own your failures and always remind yourself that it’s nobody else’s fault I have to remind myself this all the time I don’t always succeed and remembering this I do you know we do tend to want to blame outside forces like the market you know people just aren’t buying what’s going on or you know maybe it’s being maybe they took I mean if somebody just commented on my youtube recently and said they felt like being took money from them that’s ridiculous like that it’s that person’s responsibility to learn how to use being effectively they just turned it on and click some buttons and hoped that it would make him a millionaire that’s just not how things work so he’s not owning his own success he’s not owning if he was blaming Bing for something then he’s just wasting his life he’s wasting his time trying to blame you know then when really how much work did he do to learn how the platform works how much did time and you know money did he invest in training did he ever read a book about it like did he learn anything about writing ads did he learn anything about keyword research or bidding does he know anything about the offer he was trying to promote or is he just blindly trying to get rich quick I’m gonna guess it’s closer to the latter than the former so you don’t want to be like this you always want to work on owning your process if something doesn’t work it doesn’t mean you’re a bad person it doesn’t mean that you’re smart enough you’re not capable you’re always capable of achieving something that someone else has done you can always do it there’s just something that you didn’t quite get right in this particular attempt so you know go back to the books learn more try something different and you know just always remember that it’s up to you and you have infinite resources and that no obstacle is insurmountable without or with the correct amount of time skill knowledge and effort